Men think they can control women by putting all the family responsibility on her and escape himself by saying I can’t take the pressure any more or I am having headache. On the other hand women with performing all the duties at home still have the potential to grow, still have ability more than a man she can take more pressure than men.
Above mention image show how man behave with a woman. If your in laws are abusing you. You have to take action . Women should support women and collect all the evidence against abuse of any kind . You don’t have to leave your home just stay there nobody can dare throw you out of your house. Stay strong always.
Talk to your family and friends more often don’t be scared of anyone not your husband not your in laws. Always stay in touch , keep updating about your well being.
Stay away from manipulative people. If they want to interact with you. Stay calm if they provoke you , observe their pattern. Keep physical distance from them . Keep conversation small. Don’t over explain things. Focus on your happiness and well being instead.
Apply grey rock theory. Small reply, don’t start a conversation, stay focus on your work. Love yourself, self care, self growth is everything. Don’t waste your time and energy on unnecessary gossips. If a woman think to keep moving forward after a trauma she can do wonders.
Just focus on staying calm. For that you can:
- Meditate
- Pray
- Visit holy place
- Stay connected to nature
- Stay connected with family and friends
- Never feel you are alone
- As Taylor Swift says “ Think your energy as the most expensive thing you have don’t waste on worthless people”
- Focus on your passion
All the best girls.
Stay connected, stay happy, stay healthy , stay safe.
Ramneet Kaur
World of Happiness 