
What is happiness? When you attain peace of mind, is happiness. Defination of happiness depends upon our own self. For some money is happiness, for some good relations is happiness. Enjoying each other’s company is happiness.
Going on a vacation makes everyone happy. It uplifts our mood and makes us more energetic. Some kind people loves to do generous or social work like feeding hungry, providing essential things to needy. These people find happiness in making others happy. We can define happiness according to our terms. People copy each other to find happiness but forget that happiness is an inside job. You can’t find happiness by just coping others. When you are not 100 percent satisfied with what you are doing, you won’t be happy with the things you are doing and with yourself too.
Self-love is happiness. When you love yourself without bothering about, what others think about you, you start feeling good about yourself. Money can’t buy happiness. If it could have, then world’s richest people should have been the most happiest people on the earth. But it is not so. Money can buy you temporary happiness, but for happiness within yourself and peace of mind it’s important that how you react to a situation. If someone provoke you, do you get angry or calmly tackle the situation?
It’s very easy to get angry, difficult to stay calm. Try to do the difficult thing. When we complete difficult task, it makes us confident. Do you know anger is root cause of so many diseases? If not, just google it and you will be surprised to see the result of your search. Anger is major obstacle in path of reaching goal of happiness.
Create happiness around yourself. Be with people who inspire you, who want good for you, who love you for who you are. Grow, learn, admire. We mothers when get so busy in our family and children, forget about our hobbies, passion, liking. When asked about my passion by one of close friend, I paused and keep on thinking, what is my passion? After so long, I discovered that, it’s writing what makes me happy. And here I am.
We earn living to fulfill our needs and to enjoy life, but in the process we stop thinking about what are the things or reasons which makes us happy. We just go with the flow, if someone has visited a famous mall or enjoyed movie in any theater and posted happy moments on social media, we believe that, it is called happiness. I have seen families happy with limited income, still they are enjoying life. With more income and spending, we complicate our life’s.
How many people feel happy when they think of you? is the question. If your presence and absence matter to someone, it’s happiness. You have understanding soulmate, is happiness. Our happiness multiplies when we share it with others. Bow down in front of God and give all your worries to him. He will never disappoint you, but you have to trust God first. Keeping a pet and spending time with him makes every animal lover happy. What we give our pet is love and in return they also reciprocate and love us. The language of love is understood by even animals.
Have you seen plants grow well if we play music near them. Music is food for soul. It makes plants happy and they grow well. When you get support of your loved ones you feel happy. Finding happiness in small things is the key.
‘Happy are the givers.’
Ramneet Kaur





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