Tag: motivational

Believe in yourself

Nov 12th, 2021

My last blog was about believe in God and here comes the next ‘ Believe in yourself ‘. People who believe in themselves believe in their dreams, to fulfill those dreams they make efforts in the right direction to achieve them. When we believe in ourselves we becomes confident in each and every action of ours without any doubt. We don’t need anyone’s approval or permission that, is this right or wrong. When we accept ourselves as we are, with all flaws and perfections, we believe in ourselves. The confidence level becomes high and it makes us express and impress others too. When we love ourselves we not only become source of motivation and happiness for ourselves but to others too.

Have you seen an artist performing on stage? They so confidently perform their character on stage that we believe that they are the same character in real life too. This is the magic of believing in yourself. Imagine again, if the artist performing, didn’t believe in themselves and performed half-heartedly, no one would have been impressed. For doing anything in life we must believe first that we can do it. This is the ‘mantra’. Creating new blogs now and then with interesting topics is also a challenge in itself, but what motivates us and makes us happy is that the love and appreciation of audience.

The mistake which we make is we keep on depending on others. That dependency makes us paralytic at times. Though we need support of others in every stage of life but never give your key to happiness in someone else pocket, keep it with you. Motivate yourself in the morning, write 5 good qualities about yourself, which you possess. Write 5 things which you want to change in yourself. Laugh at your flaws and accept them. Always remember nobody is perfect in this whole world. Take good care of your health, make healthy choice according to your age while eating.

When we believe in ourselves it is accompanied by confidence, this confidence boost our mind and bring happiness in everything we do, we feel worthy. When we know our worth, not only it makes us priceless but we came to know who is the deriving force for us. Who are our kind of people and who are not. Qualities which we possess are our assets, use them wisely. Use them for your good and the society. When we fail in any task or can’t achieve any target, we feel demotivated and disappointed. Instead we must think about other opportunities and possibilities rather than just get struck with our disappointments.

The people who put you down all the time are not your people. Beware of them, instead make new friends who appreciate and are happy for your happiness and are sad when you are low. First things first is, become so busy in your improvement and well being that you don’t have time for gossips. Remember those who talk behind your back are people who deserve your back. Don’t feel sad to lose them rather they are loosing you.

Believing yourself is one step ahead in the long journey of life. Do what makes you happy more often. Look at new horizons. Being happy, being you, being kind, being human, being at peace with yourself is new defination of success. Give yourself a chance to look at things with different perspective. Persue your hobbies or passion. Be creative, be wild, be humourous, be fantastic.

Believe that you can, believe that you will. No one can stop you from achieving your dreams. Believe in them. Have full faith that everything will turn to be in your favour.

Ramneet Kaur
Believe in God

Nov 7th, 2021

Do you believe in God? I do. It is the best and more trustworthy method to find peace of mind, which most of us are finding, by downloading an app or by paying handsome amount to rejuvenate. When we believe in God our outlook changes altogether to see life from different perspective. We not only find happiness within ourselves but feel happy to make others happy too. We are more happy with what we have and are satisfied. Riches are everyone’s desire but it should not cost your peace of mind.

Visit to a historical place, religious travels cleanses our soul. Running after money all the time gives so much stress, anxiety, diseases that we have to spend handsome amount to get relieved, healthy. Travelling to a holy place not only makes us know that place but provide us it’s positivity too. Some people don’t believe in God, may be they think that they are the source of their happiness and God don’t have a role in their lives. But it’s not true at all, the word ‘KARMA’ says it all, what you will sow, you will reap. If your nature reflects jealousy, ego, anger, arrogance that means you are not enlightened soul and needs God’s guidance.

When you do something wrong or hurt anyone intentionally. It’s denotes your Karma and the consequences will be accordingly. Those who have fear of God, believe in God never attempt these deeds. Rather they are kind, humble, helpful and down to earth souls. Be it any religion or any God we worship, we are never taught to hate anyone, we are not taught to harm anyone. So I wonder about the people who don’t worship or believe any God, never been to holy place to worship. I wonder what restrain them to do so. We can cleanse our body but to cleanse our mind and soul we need to worship the Lord.

One should be patient when someone hurt them. Leave it to God to do the justice. Believe that you will always win. Sometimes we wish one thing, but Lord give us in abundance and this is his way of pouring the love on us. We must always be thankful to God. When we trust the almighty it strengthens us. No matter what we be through, it gives us courage and motivation that God will help us and enlighten our lives. We and whole world is creation of God. The purpose of our existence is only known to him.

When we think practically, we think in monetary terms, like how much profit we will gain, how much to invest to fetch handsome return and emotions takes a backseat. When we think emotionally we are are least bother about any gains but want to win a relation. When we think spiritually, we become children of God and surrender in front of him. When we are in party mood we forget everything and gets indulge in drinking, casino, we see a new world where everyone is happy and enjoying, but overindulgence is bad.

It’s not that those who believe in God never party, we do but our way of celebrating is somewhat different. We include presence of God in each our celebrations, because he is the reason for our celebrations, how can we forget him. In Gurbani its said: ਸੋ ਕਿਉਂ ਵਿਸਰੇ ਜਿਨ ਸਭ ਕਿਛੁ ਦੀਆਂ। English Translation: Why to forget the almighty who has given us everything. Likewise we never forget him in sorrow so that we gets strength to face this situation too.

We have seen many times Doctors failed and lives of patients saved by a miracle. What this miracle shows, it shows that there is a power or force which is over and above man’s intelligence. We have seen doctors find themselves helpless in this pandemic. The situation was worsening in many parts of the world, we have seen videos of doctors who were worshiping God for help. We can’t deny and will always be thankful to doctors and medical staff who worked day and night to save lives of people without bothering about their lives. Their reaserch gave us life saving vaccines, they are still working on children vaccine. Those who believe in God saved lives of others, the kindness, humanity, helpful nature which each religion possesses works for us.

We should always visit holy places to get vaccinated against hate, jealousy, wrong deeds, anger. Pay our respect there and again go for booster shots if needed. But as pandemic is still not ended, should always wear mask, maintain social distance and clean your hands.

Ramneet Kaur
Morning Madness

Sep 28th, 2021

Just imagine, it’s 7 O’ clock in the morning already. Are you feeling fresh or just ok? What is the first thing that comes to your mind? Oh! I am getting late, isn’t it? New day, new hope, new challenges makes day worth living, whereas same boring routein makes a dull start. Mornings gives direction to your whole day. If your spirits are high in morning, your whole day will be spend good, for sure. What if you are not feeling fresh or low in morning?

We all are in a hurry, in mornings, to reach office on time, to start online classes,to prepare first meal of the day for the family. Everyone at home gets mad, to start the day. No body wants that their day be ruined. Who wants to be low or dull in morning? No one. Everyone has their own way to start the day. Meditation in morning is good to enhance the mind and body. To recharge the positive energies in us. The planning for morning should be done before night, so that you get time to exercise too, in morning.

Being in a hurry or rush all the time makes things complicated at times. The task or work is same daily, but if we change the approach to complete it, it will be beneficial for us. Listening just instrumental music calms and relax you. Try it once and let me know how was that day goes for you.

While preparing meals always have positive thoughts, as those positive vibes will enhance the energy of food which you are preparing for your family. The more fast you are in the mornings to get dress up and all, the more is the chances that you will forget something or the other. Get ready but don’t forget things that are necessary, like having breakfast, I think we all are on fast forward mode in mornings which makes me imagine it and have a good laugh. Just after the office goers goes to office and school children start attending their classes, it seems that we have won a battle. Battle with time, to be on time. Ignore eating breakfast in mornings, morning walks, meditation. Morning Madness has make us that way.

Imagine it’s Sunday morning, you wake up late, there is no hurry to go anywhere, you eat your breakfast, the way it should be eaten daily. Your favourite meal. What if it happens daily, I mean to say, what if you find time for your morning meal on weekdays too. For that you have to stop your morning madness ( hurry) and think about time management in the mornings.

Nourish yourself, pamper yourself, love yourself,other things will follow. Prepare your favourite food, so that you have cravings for it, be mad to find happiness, happiness in waking up early, you can refer to benefits of waking up early, on internet. Also you can find benefits of having nutritious breakfast in mornings. We all know what is good and right for us, still not doing it, it is our fault and we will bear the consequences later, for not taking care of ourselves. So, better be mad for your health rather than be mad in mornings for no reason.

Everything can’t be taught. Realising is enough. If you will not give importance to yourselves, no one will. So, be a morning person, watch sun rise, go for morning walks, eat well, be excited to wake up early in the morning. Your morning madness will transform into morning bliss.

Ramneet Kaur
Be yourself

Aug 25th, 2021

In today’s world of showoff and fakeness it’s very difficult to be, what you are. The first step towards being yourself is, treat yourself nicely. Take good care of your health first, then think of others as its said ‘you can’t pour from empty cup’.

Our lifestyle is such that we are running towards achieving some targets or goals all the time, for example a sales manager is worried to achieve sales targets, a fat person’s goal may be to reduce weight and so on. In this fast life of ours we must slow down a little bit and try to live a simple life. A simple life not only make us calm and composed but also bring the feeling of satisfaction.

Sometimes we do certain things to please others, we fake smile, we become extra nice, we showoff how rich we are, we wear expensive stuff to impress others. But we forget, by doing such acts, we might get the attention of others, but in the process we loose ourselves totally.

We in this world of technology, are more active on social media than in real life. The creativity which was present in each one of us has taken a back stage. We get all the help from Google. Earlier we use to learn from each other but now if you want to learn anything, you have tutorials available on youtube, and that too free of cost. Now, when someone travel, will post on social media platform, if someone visited a restaurant, will post a pic of what they are eating. The way we use to talk to each other have changed drastically.

The more we have become dependent on technology, the more we are loosing ourselves. We don’t find time to do any creative activity or our mind has become so dull that we can’t think of anything creative. In this case I am lucky, I was planning to do something creative for so long but couldn’t understand what to do. And one lucky day I entered into the vast world of blogging. I will share honest experience with you that from the day I started blogging, I have seen change in myself. Earlier I spent almost whole day on social media seeing this video, sharing that post. It was so unproductive and waste of time. Now my mind have become creative and I feel so happy when I publish new blog of mine. I feel that, yes, this is my creation. I have not copy it from anywhere.

‘SPEAK LESS THAN YOU KNOW, HAVE MORE THAN YOU SHOW’. Our thirst for knowledge should be such that, we must focus to first learn ourselves and then only advice others. Copying others is waste of time, you will only try to copy others, but where are your creativity if you copy others. Some people think that if my friend have choosen such a course or doing a particular business, I will also do the same. This shows how dull your mind have become that you can’t even choose what your potential is, what you are capable of. You haven’t think of things which may be your friend might not be good at but you are. Think out of the box. To be yourself , you have to spend time with yourself. Then only you can decide, what are the things that makes you happy. Your lifestyle allows you how much time to devote on yourself. When you stop those stupid act of forwarding received post, as it is, and think to create something of your own. When you wear dresses according to your choice, when you visit places you want to visit, when you eat what you like, when you are free to be happy or sad. This mindset when you achive will take you to the steps further, to be yourself.

We all are unique, everyone has a quality or the other, we just have to recognise it and ask a question to ourselves that ‘What is unique in me, that makes me different from others’? The answer to this question will be different in each case. But this will make you the person, you actually are. So, BE YOURSELF.

Ramneet Kaur