
We often visit to mall near our place. From past 6-8 months or so me and my son were observing a thing. Whenever we were waiting for food ordered, we saw people sitting around enjoying their food. Some with family, some with friends. What surprised us was we always saw two or three people eating their food alone. Me and my son always talk about this and one day I decided to go alone in the mall to experience how it feels to eat alone. I had never done this before.
So, I went to the mall shopped alone, bought two t-shirts for my son. It didn’t felt awkward shopping alone because I did it many times before.
Now, I went to the food court which is on third floor of Pacific Mall. I was already feeling shy to eat anything alone. I ordered a drink and finished it in a hurry because it seemed everyone is staring at me only. My experience was not good.
Why people go alone and enjoy food? It hit me hard. I searched on Google and found about Solo Dates.
I know everyone talks about self love, self care nowadays. I also wrote about it, but didn’t know about solo dates. Is it worth it? Let’s find out.
Today we will know more about solo dates.
According to google:
Solo dates is an activity you do by yourself, often to prioritize self care and self discovery. Solo dates can be great way to:
- Get out of your comfort zone.
- Increase your confidence.
- Explore new things.
- Rebuild relationship with yourself.
- Feel more independent.
- Prevent losing individuality in a relationship.
I totally agree with Google on all the above mention points.
Ideas of Solo dates according to google:
- Take a walk.
- Go for a drive.
- Volunteer for a cause.
- Plan a weekend without gadgets.
- Get a workout.
- Watch a movie.
- Treat yourself a fancy meal.
I again totally agree with all the ideas of google except the last one because I never seen anybody happy eating alone. You can have your meal at home that may be a great idea.
Solo dates are a good way to listen to your souls voice which will help you decide what is good and bad for you. When we are surrounded by people we often come under their influence and take decisions accordingly.
Keep the steering of your life in your hands.
Stay happy stay healthy.
Ramneet Kaur













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