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Don’t lose your spark ✨️

Aug 1st, 2025

In a world where everyday you hear and listen news about war, floods, earthquake and many more devastating things going around us. How can you think about being unaffected by these.

Every now and then your mind takes you to what will happen in future. After so many days , after watching a reel on instagram it inspires me to write a blog.

We all are sailing in same ship. The reel was about how to regain your spark and be happy.

Being a teenager’s parent, I only think about the future of my child. Pray and wish 🤞 for the best.

When you are focused on the well being of your loved ones their happiness becomes yours. You feel happy to see the achievements of your child. It gives you more happiness than yours.

Being active again in stack market gives me direction. The market opens from 9:15 am to 3:30 pm but the homework is to be done after market hours. It takes a lot of your time and dedication. Which makes me so focused on that ,that I forgot to post any blog for so long.

Recently done 3 months course on Holistic Nutrition from Deititian , Lavleen Kaur . Learned so much. All the things makes me occupied. When you learn something new. Your vision towards life changes. Small things gives you happiness. Preparing a healthy meal makes you happy. A tea/coffee break slows you down.

To pen down your thoughts clears your mind. I must say I have a great experience to write blogs and enjoy so much. Blogging has become one of my true friend to whom I can share everything without thinking any second thought.

If you want to be happy, stay active, learn new things. If someone betrayed you that is not your fault. Focus on people who truly love you for who you are and that’s the most special reason to be happy.

World is waiting for you with open arms. Don’t lose your spark ✨️.

So let’s focus on ourselves and the good things which we have in life. Be thankful for lovely souls in our lives. Let’s begin new month with a positive note.

Stay happy, stay healthy, stay safe.

Ramneet Kaur
Uplifting each other brings happiness.

Oct 6th, 2024
Whenever I pick up my mobile in the morning. The first thing I do is watch a live video from Gurdwara then check my stock market portfolio.

Now comes the turn of social media. It is daily flooded with motivational and inspirational posts. I am sure we all come across such post and scrolling for sometimes find a quote relatable. It is like finding the right one which suits our life.

Because we don’t believe ourselves. We think others are better than us so we want others advice all the time. I also save many post which I like but never share them on social media. Because I don’t want to preach anyone, I have to learn and grow. Remember words are like magic✨️.

Try to create your own quotes, get inspired by others but be original with your writing.

After so long I am writing a blog, you know why, I was short of an idea. This happens when you stop writing. Now I have the confidence to bring something to the table. This confidence comes when you are surrounded by people who are always there, keep uplifting you. They can only uplift you but remember you have to do the needful yourself.

You have to compete with self generated blogs using AI. A person who don’t know English well can just by entering what blog he wants on chatgpt, gets the blog ready in seconds by AI.

I can also do that, anybody can, but I will not. For me blogging is like an art 🎨. Like an artist play with colours for me blogging is my style of painting. I will choose how to paint it, not AI. I am here to express not to impress. I will express in my style.

Imagine your sister has started a business, you have to uplift her not because you are her sister but because you will also feel happy when she succeed. Keep pushing her. Social media distracts, to be focused you have to set goals for yourself.
1. Health goal, workout.
2. Learn and grow.
3. Indulge in your favourite hobby.
4. Make money.
5. Eat balanced diet.
6. Take care of family.
Uplifting is believing in other person and saying keep going I am so impressed you are doing the right thing. On the other hand preaching is you are pointing out others mistakes and making them more vulnerable. Negative people preach, Positive people uplift.

When people follow you, it’s your responsibility to brighten up the right path for them. Inspire others.

We all are unique, that’s why our finger prints don’t match with each other.

Choose people who choose you. Over and over again.

On one hand we are talking about climate action, on other hand countries are fighting with each other, war is intensifying day by day. Solution should always be peace and kindness.

What is the reason for war? Just to show who is more powerful than other.

Who is suffering? Humanity. Who wants destruction? Inhuman People.

Always choose peace, always be kind, pray for others, be with family.

Stay happy stay healthy.

Ramneet Kaur
Solo Dates

Sep 16th, 2024
We often visit to mall near our place. From past 6-8 months or so me and my son were observing a thing. Whenever we were waiting for food ordered, we saw people sitting around enjoying their food. Some with family, some with friends. What surprised us was we always saw two or three people eating their food alone. Me and my son always talk about this and one day I decided to go alone in the mall to experience how it feels to eat alone. I had never done this before.

So, I went to the mall shopped alone, bought two t-shirts for my son. It didn’t felt awkward shopping alone because I did it many times before.

Now, I went to the food court which is on third floor of Pacific Mall. I was already feeling shy to eat anything alone. I ordered a drink and finished it in a hurry because it seemed everyone is staring at me only. My experience was not good.

Why people go alone and enjoy food? It hit me hard. I searched on Google and found about Solo Dates.

I know everyone talks about self love, self care nowadays. I also wrote about it, but didn’t know about solo dates. Is it worth it? Let’s find out.

Today we will know more about solo dates.

According to google:

Solo dates is an activity you do by yourself, often to prioritize self care and self discovery. Solo dates can be great way to:
1. Get out of your comfort zone.
2. Increase your confidence.
3. Explore new things.
4. Rebuild relationship with yourself.
5. Feel more independent.
6. Prevent losing individuality in a relationship.
I totally agree with Google on all the above mention points.

Ideas of Solo dates according to google:
1. Take a walk.
2. Go for a drive.
3. Volunteer for a cause.
4. Plan a weekend without gadgets.
5. Get a workout.
6. Watch a movie.
7. Treat yourself a fancy meal.
I again totally agree with all the ideas of google except the last one because I never seen anybody happy eating alone. You can have your meal at home that may be a great idea.

Solo dates are a good way to listen to your souls voice which will help you decide what is good and bad for you. When we are surrounded by people we often come under their influence and take decisions accordingly.

Keep the steering of your life in your hands.

Stay happy stay healthy.

Ramneet Kaur
Keep the Child in you Alive

Apr 25th, 2024

Remember when we were children, we wanted to become adults very soon? Children want to become adult because they see freedom of action. Adults don’t have to ask for anything from anyone, they can do what they like, there is no one to scold them, they don’t have to study, adults don’t have to go to school, they don’t have to do homework etc. These are some reasons children want to become adults soon.

Now, when we are already adults we miss our school time, that golden period of our lives where we had to follow rules and regulations, we had to be in decipline. We miss our school friends, some are in touch and some are not. We are so busy in earning a living that we have no time even to think about it, isn’t it?

We should balance our professional and personal life wisely. So that, we also have time for leisure, for hobbies, just to rest, enjoy nature, spend time with our family and friends. When we miss our school friends we also miss those old days when we were children.

Don’t take life too seriously. If you love swimming, just go for it. If you love cycling, just do it. It’s always right to do what you love, instead of regretting or wasting time thinking, I am too old for all this.

Health and happiness go hand in hand. If you are healthy then you are happy and if you are happy you will automatically become healthy. For your health for your happiness, to stay young always, never think you are too old to start again.

You can start a business at 60. I have seen people who have started at the age of 60 and above and are very successful. Because they don’t think that they are 60. They think that they can achieve anything at any age.

So, what are you waiting for? Join a sports academy for your fitness 💪. Indulge in any creative activity 🎨. Be financially independent. Or, do something to inspire others.

Stay happy stay fit.

Ramneet Kaur
My First Tattoo

Dec 20th, 2023

Interesting story of how I got inked. About 4 years back suddenly one day I showed interest to get inked, have a tattoo on my wrist. My husband had a tattoo many years back. I was always against tattoos. I used to say it’s just for show off and the stuff like that.

First thing which I did after decided to get inked is, found a good reliable, experienced tattoo artist. After serching the internet finally found one. I paid 200 bucks at the time of booking my appointment with the tattoo artist.

I was so excited, but at the same time scared. Scared of how much pain I have to bear while going through the process of getting inked and after care. I keep on talking to people who have tattoo on their body. Making me sure that its safe and I don’t have to go through much pain. I was not sure whether I will be going to get tattoo done or not. I started searching for videos of people who got their first tattoo and their experience. Some said there was not much pain others were bothered with pain. I was so confused.

Another important thing is to choose a design which you wish to get inked. Its very difficult to choose. Google will provide you enormous answers and images but you have to choose according to your own preference and choice because it’s your body where the tattoo will remain throughout your lifetime. Choose wisely.

Now the day came, on which I was having appointment with tattoo artist. I didn’t got the courage to go after watching so many videos. Actually I was scared of needles. It gave me enough reason to withdraw my decision of getting tattooed. Another reason was aftercare and risk of having infection.

Internet provide vast information, sometimes we got confused when we get abundance of knowledge. What to do. My 200 bucks got wasted. I gave so many reasons not to get inked.

Another year passed. Again I got interested to get inked. This time I didn’t watched any video but searched for which design will be good as my first tattoo. Again paid 200 bucks to the same tattoo artist for booking appointment. This time I ask him I paid you last year 200 bucks will it be adjusted when getting a tattoo from you. He said yes it will be adjusted in final payment. I was thrilled. This time it was not pain which stopped me to get inked. It was the fear of after care, risk of infection which stopped me to get inked.

Now 400 bucks got wasted. In year 2022 I started my weight loss journey which gave me strength. I feel better. More healthy more strong 💪. I keep questioning myself why I didn’t have the courage to get inked. This year definitely I will get a tattoo on my wrist.

This time I choose another experienced tattoo artist with 15 years of experience. Booked an appointment for Sunday but can’t wait and had my tattoo done on Thursday itself. This time I was sure. It was a great experience. My husband went with me to the tattoo studio. I was holding his hand all the time while going through the process and pain. My tattoo was done by THE TATTOO SHOP, NEW DELHI, INDIA. The ambience was so nice and hygienic. They use new imported needle for my tattoo. Kept me motivated with kind words. Light music was playing. I really enjoyed, it took 30 min to tattoo get done. Before that, we took 15 min to choose the design. The Tattoo artist tell me about the aftercare. I have to be careful for 30 days.

I got my first tattoo on 21 Sep, 2023. Yeh!! So happy.

Ramneet Kaur
Be the light

Sep 10th, 2023

Be the light in someone’s darkness. So that they can easily see the path ahead. We all have the ability to encourage each other. It takes only a few kind words, spoken or written which can encourage someone, can make their day. Can change their life.

We all have our own struggles which always makes us so busy that the time we get for ourself is to rest or sleep only. We never think of being creative because we lack time. Creating something is a pleasure, those who are in creative field knows how it feels when they complete a book or blog, how it feels to complete a work of art. Being creative gives you immense pleasure and satisfaction.

We all have good and bad experiences about social media but sometimes we meet people who encourage us by their post, who becomes an inspiration for all not because they want more likes but they want good for others, these souls are very rare to find and if you met someone great on social media treasure their friendship.

Social media is full of things to explore. It only depends on what are your interests.

World needs more encouraging people than critics. Some have their job to encourage people to do better others encourage because they are the light for others in the dark. There is a difference.

If you love someone express your feelings before it’s too late. Express before they are gone. Show them that you love, you care. Your love can change a person for good.

By encouraging each other we are making the world better, full of smiles, full of laughter, full of happiness.

If you are not healthy, how can you guide anyone about health. If I am not happy how I can spread happiness. We spread what we have, If we have love we spread love. Make sure your cup is full then only you can pour to others.

When we sit in a plane while giving safety instructions cabin crew says, wear your oxygen mask first, then help others. What does it means? It means help yourself first then think to help others.

Be the light

Ramneet Kaur
Things that makes us Happy

Aug 31st, 2023

We all like many things which makes us happy. It may be food, music, art, anything. But when it comes to me, I love few things which always makes me happy. They are, good food, music, travelling, coffee, nature, books,reading, and writing ✍️.

Good food fulfill our stomach, good music fulfill our soul. Travelling makes us explore a place unknown to us, which makes us curious, excited about the place to visit. When we visit a new place we experience and feel it’s aura.

Coffee is a feeling experienced by every coffee lover. Coffee is drank everywhere around the world and loved by most people.

I discuss all the things which makes me happy. Now it’s your turn.

Tell me the things which makes you happy in comment section. Let’s be interactive and not just only like each other’s blogs. It will be great to know what makes you happy.

Ramneet Kaur