World of Happiness

Reward Yourself

Our morning starts with bed tea or coffee. Next comes freshening up, making breakfast, if going to work, preparing lunch also in morning. We are all the time in rush to catch-up with something or the other. Proper planning of the day makes it easier for us to be more relaxed and enjoy our day with work simultaneously. Self care and self decipline go hand in hand. When you find time for yourself it makes you more decipline. Next day morning when you get up you will make a schedule to do things, which are daily tasks like cooking, cleaning etc. you will be more excited to complete the essential work on time so that you can spend quality time with yourself or family members.

For example, if you plan to watch a movie on ott then you will finish all your work with being so excited to watch a new movie, on the other hand, if you are not motivated or don’t reward yourself then work becomes burden. So reward yourself daily with something or the other to stay motivated all day. Say to yourself today if I complete this I will eat my favourite ice-cream, or may be go shopping, etc. It will not only make you happy but to see you happy all the people around you will feel your happy vibes.

Life is full of ups and down, no matter what you have to face hard situations some times. Don’t loose yourself and be confident that the hard time will pass soon. Write 5 things that you are grateful for daily in a notebook. You will feel blessed. Everyone want to be rewarded for their extra efforts which they put in completing a job, be it a project in office completed by an employee or child’s better result, extra efforts put on by a businessman in his business.

Children when after so much study hours and exams feel thrilled when they get the opportunity to enjoy a movie and the trip is organized by school itself. Isn’t it rewarding for children. They make so much memories on that movie spree which they will treasure their whole life. Corporates should also think about sending employees on family trip so that the whole lot of time, energy, dedication which an employee involve in a company is due to support of his family members without them he cannot perform well in a company. Corporates should understand not only their employees but families of employees are involved in the good performance of a company and should be rewarded accordingly.

Recently changing my son’s school I came to know that his new school is so much active in extra curricular activities, their worldwide exposure and teachers are given opportunity to learn from attending different seminars extra. They are also with children rewarded with picnics extra. It’s good for overall development of children and teachers. Good to see my son always coming cheerful from school. These all are example of others giving you reward. But my blog is about how to reward yourself. It can be done if and only if you like to be rewarded.

Now a days we all use payment wallets like Google pay, Amazon pay to pay for shopping, grocery, bill payment etc. What they do, have you noticed, they reward you with scratch card which may be a surprise discount coupon, a subscription to any app, a cashback. Why they do so, so that when you think of paying, you return to them thinking you will get a reward.

Reward yourself a grooming session, taking care of yourself is not a sin. Bring home your favourite things which fascinates you, enjoy the new and the old things. Cheer up, celebrate life. Celebrations bring colours of joy to a place. It’s gibberish not to reward youself. Frankly speaking, to be at jam packed malls is not much fascinating than to be at a city park with children, families playing around, people brisk walking, pets roaming around. Being with nature is reward in itself. We spend so much money to go to a hill station, to be with nature. Easy way out is daily spare small amount of time and go to a nearby park.

You will be more than happy to know and see like-minded people in park. In mall you may spend on junk food but in park you will only come home with energetic you. Motivated enough to go next day too.

So, start rewarding yourself now itself. For reading such a nice blog, reward me too with your likes and comments.

Ramneet Kaur