What do you think about women and the role played by them in your life? Think again, think of your grand mother, mother, sister, wife daughter. The values which your grandmother have given you, the protection, the care, love. Then comes mother, recently we celebrated mother’s day, in March we celebrated women’s day. Do you just give a gift to your mother and make the day special for her or make everyday special for her, by caring, loving, giving attention?

When it comes to women empowerment I feel why is the need for empowering women? They are already strong but friends the society in which we live is still men oriented it may be changing though. Men can’t see women more successful than him, though exceptions are always there. I wonder if someday God send a women to save the world, this men oriented world will not accept that also. They will deny the blessings of God and question him why you send a women to save the world. It hurts men ego, I am talking about the orthodox ones.

The blog is about how women play a vital role and are backbone of a family. Think of a day, start from morning till night. Who takes care of all the stuff done at home cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, homemakers are more engaged in their home than working women. I already said exceptions are always there. Women work from home also, so that they can give optimum time to family and their career too. Ambition to make a career of their own is good but if your child gets neglected then it will harm you in long run. Women when given a chance to do red collar job or white collar job or blue collar job they do wonders. Women are more patient, calm, strong, focussed than men.

If a women gets ill in a family whole family gets affected. It makes the family paralysed. Best way out is to share the work load of home, men should start cooking at home, wash cloths, many family men already do it and also make your little ones independent, let them cook their meal once in a week. It will be an activity for them and they will also learn to cook. Women are much sensible to take care of families finances. The reason is men are so busy making money that they don’t have time to think where to invest earned money. Women always be encouraged to get higher education so that , she can pass on that education to their children.

An educated women is an asset to the family. She can lead the family business. She can do anything. There are dreams in her eyes also. A women protects, care, love, fight for injustice and expect support from other family members. People judge because they can’t accept change. The people who can’t digest womens’ success will always drag women back by ethical or non ethical ways. Don’t bother about those people. Stay true to yourself.

Women lead government can deliver much better governance. Women always work in favour of all the citizens of the nation and having soft corner for everyone. She always lead a peaceful government with growth and prosperity of the people in mind.

War in Ukraine is example of men ego leading to destruction. Destruction of infrastructure, loss of people’s life, harm to humanity, affecting whole world, I strongly believe not only women can be backbone of family but can play vital role in Governments also. Prime Minister of Sweden and Prime Minister of Finland is such example.

Be the change, try to overcome all the obstacles and three cheers to all the feminist.

Ramneet Kaur