Recently, I was watching a comedy show advertisement on T.V., A man was performing both, male and female character and making fun of women and men. For him, it’s his bread and butter, the writer, whatever he wrote for him, the actor performed. It’s just a fun act, but can hurt many. So, I once read somewhere that ‘my laugh should not be the reason for someone’s cry’. People want to tear you down because they can’t be like you, so they find your weakness and make every effort you don’t succeed in life. But let me tell you one thing, trust God and yourself, say to yourself that yes, I Can Do this. You will definetly succeed in life.

You can overcome each and every obstacle when you change your mindset. People do things to divert your attention, to break you, to divert your focus. And want to bring you down. Never let it happen with you. Always remember don’t trust words, trust actions. People say so many things but their actions speaks, notice it.

You are, what you think you are. When you stop bothering about everyone, you attain another level of freedom. Imagine you are at home and sitting and sipping coffee, suddenly you think of a person who ditched you in past and feel sad, don’t feel sad, God wants him to go from your life because you have not heard the conversations, God has listen. Sometimes it’s good that some unwanted people should be cut off.

Choose joy, happiness. If a person keeps abusing you, her words and actions don’t match, cut her off from your life. People who are not good for your mental well being, should always be avoided. Be so busy in loving, pampering, grooming yourself that you don’t have time for negative people. Cook, sing, dance, be happy in whatever you do. Appreciate life.

Happiness is, to see the green fields. Beauty of nature makes you happy and let you forget all the worries, tensions, stress. Spend more time with nature. Go to nearby park more often, spend some time there. Play a sport, when you indulge in activities like this, you will find no time to overthink. Read a book or magazine, use less gadgets. When we find ourselves capable of doing things which we had not done in past, it boost our confidence. Ignoring negative people and wearing confidence is key to success.

You are rejected in job interview, you failed in your business, don’t lose hope. Be positive and keep on going. One day you will surely succeed. Losers are those, who don’t try again. Try, try ,try again. There was a lady, who always think that she can’t do anything new other than household work, she can’t earn, she don’t have the capability in her. But, one day she got the opportunity to do her own business at the age of 90 with her family support. https://instagram.com/harbhajansmadewithlove?utm_medium=copy_link . Just click on the link and you will find this 90 year old entrepreneur.

When she can do business at the age 90, why can’t we at young age? She is an inspiration to many. Don’t be disheartened and be prepared for next challenge to make your mark.

Be inspired by others but don’t forget, you can also be an inspiration too. Think about it.

Ramneet Kaur