Mother’s all around the world must agree that her child’s happiness is the most important thing which she wants. Right from the day her child is born she gets delighted to see his vibrant smile. She for the sake of his child sometimes sacrifice her career. So that she can take good care of her child. Make food for him, be always there when he needs her, play games with him, teach him new things. Mother’s world revolve around his child, she gets worried when she see a little sadness on her child’s face, if her child not eat properly, if the child gets injured.

But, sometimes we as mother’s don’t understand why our child is behaving in certain ways. We start finding the answer on the internet. I also right from, when my child was born, wanted to know, what are the milestones which a child should achieve, to a certain age. I became so cautious and worried that, I always be thinking of, why my child have not started walking by this age or why he is not eating certain food etc.

Searching and attaining knowledge from the internet is good but excess knowledge leads to confusion. It’s best to talk to a child specialist. Let your child grow at his pace.

By the time child comes in his teenage, he understands a lot, have studied a lot, knows so much and mothers can easily communicate with them. Our child sometimes teaches us new things about computer, about new technology and much more. Mothers should not always lecture his child, but sometimes become a student also and learn from his child. Ask your child about, what subject he studied today, what was the topic and when he will answer you , you will automatically know what he learned and understand.

Sometimes children are in so much pressure of studies, that they only think about it. Spending time with them is not always enough, ask them what they like, give them breaks from studies, know what are their hobbies. My son is a diploma holder in calligraphy, he not only study, not only learn new art from his teacher, but also taught his art to 50 children from different part of the world, free of cost at the time of lockdown. I am so proud of him.

By giving them freedom to choose their path, children attain immense confidence that his family supports him fully. Not only they feel happy about doing what they like , but feel so much light from inside that they want to fly high.

Academical grades only tell you what they learned. But what they understand will be known to you when you sit with them and support their liking, their area of interests.

All the mothers give their hundred percent for raising their child. But comparing your child with other child is the wrong thing which we do. Every child has his own qualities, some may be good at dancing, some may be good in studies. By knowing about your child’s likes and dislikes and supporting him is what will make him a good and happy human being.

Ramneet Kaur